The Power Of A Single Wrong Decision

How much your life can be affected by the brutal actions of your beloved ones.

Muhammad Touqeer
5 min readMay 15, 2021

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A happy family living a very compatible life, have almost everything and growing in all aspects. Then one lousy decision happened, and it changed everything entirely in permanently.

How much you can be affected by your loved ones. Power of a single wrong decision imposed on her permanently, she knows she has dead slow and a very long-suffering ahead.

It’s just the beginning of a long journey where the girl is supposed to carry not herself but the parents and other family members in a solid and pure family system.

Long Story Short

Cause

A family member beloved one exchanged all his family members in a single Gambling deal. By Knowing that what he is gambling, family only have. He sold for nothing; all other family members’ dreams and status jeopardies their lives, needs, and future.

He also had a goal because he had a dream to be super-rich in the quickest way possible.

Effect

You can’t give what you don’t have, don’t take what you don’t own. It would be a catastrophe.

Stage One

The worse is yet to come.

The wrong decision had been made by loved one; the outcome was expected but not yet realized. The family was wonder that how 1000 Dollars can cause a $100,000 loss?

That was the clear indication of gambling and speculation.

Here was the time when the family needs to make a decision, and here absolute agony started.

Instead of facing the ultimate gambling decision, They started hiding the facts and overprotected that person.

He didn’t realize what he has done; he said OK, because my family is with me; he presumed that’s how to learn that’s the way to learning, which was my learning phase. He should have realized that gambling is not learning, especially when most people are at stake.

If the family had a mature decision at that time, the second stage was utterly avoidable. People make mistakes; that’s why we called them humans and not Angels.

Because they hide the facts and don’t and face reality, they did not think that the worse is yet to come.

Stage Two

Too Late For The Realization.

When you pretend to a status that you don’t have anymore, it costs you and consumes you in many ways.

So-called sported family, who wasted all their energies and rational thinking to pretend the situation, a long nightmare occupied entirely.

The amount that gambled proved much, much bigger than what they had expected. Many aspects of the story were yet to be on unfolding. Everything vanished by gambling, no more pretending, no more supporting arguments, huge debts, empty hands, criminal proceedings, no leg to stand on.

The family accepted they had made a colossal mistake. They should have face reality earlier; we shouldn’t pretend our status, we shouldn’t protect that gambling person, it was too late to accept.

Now, real frightening consequences were happening, and they did not have any choice but to accept and beer.

Stage Three

Slow And Very Long-Suffering.

They struggled for even basic needs, empty hands, empty pockets, finding solutions, seeking opinions, engaging arguments, and praying for help.

But there are time limitations that no one can unmake the past, no matters how desperately we want to. There was no way back.

The Struggle Of A Young Woman To Break The Vicious Cycle…

A Sacrifice Of A Daughter

From here, the news story starts, carrying so many liabilities, a struggle for a young woman who is optimistic about changing her family’s future. No matter how hard it is, she wants to change their life and their future.

She devoted the rest of her life to change the future of our parents and family members, and she can’t live her life as she should be because there are so many significant responsibilities on her shoulders.

Love your family but not only live for the family. It is not her crime to be in prison. It is not her sin to be punished for.

Questions and doubts

These are my doubts; someone can disagree with that.

How much risk can someone take on by jeopardizing others life?

We all are connected. Why we taught our actions doesn’t impact others lives?

Is that a correct way to step up by killing our loved ones’ lives and reigns?

Can someone opt to bear a burden that she never created?

The person who gambled everything should be considered innocent?

Conclusion

People make substantial mistakes. A Single brutal decision didn’t throw the family from the sky to dirt; denial of reality, misrepresentation of fact, over pampering and pretending high status made them vulnerable.

Results on stage one were expected, and there was a huge room to be corrected. Energies should put on resolving the problem and facing reality. Seeking opinions can solve the matter entirely and with so much ease.

Stage 2 results at such a vulnerable position were unexpected, but the financial matters can be solved with time and effort.

At Level 3, things were totally gone wrong new aspects of the story come out because the family didn’t take any action against him at the first step.

A father doesn’t need to tell his son or daughter that it is a natural thing how much he loved them. When children make bad decisions, please don’t overprotect them. If you do, they will always come back with much worse decisions. It is human nature to make mistakes, but crime and mistake are utterly different. A person should be enthusiastic about getting rich, but by success, not by gambling on their family members’ lives and dreams, and taking advantage and getting too rich in the quickest brutal ways.

Next step

We all love our families from the deepest heart and love your family, but if someone is criminally involved in making your life hell, please don’t toe his policies because he’s your beloved one. He is not gambling for his life; he is making the whole life of your family destroyed.

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Muhammad Touqeer

A versatile writer who tackles any subject with curiosity, insight, and originality. Constantly looking for new challenges to write about.